26
Jul
Bad Parents and Perfect Partners of Avoidant Attachments
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anglebody
We all know avoidants carry a fantasy of the “perfect lover” in their heads. If you become a...
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07
Jul
How the Avoidant Attachment Style Runs Their Inner System
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(1) Survival
For most of us, making it to today feels like no big deal. But for avoidants, survivin...
05
Jul
Two Sets of Survival Logics: Avoidant vs. Anxious Attachment
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In previous letters, I’ve mentioned that avoidant attachers operate on a different system than ...
01
Jul
A Letter To The Partner Of An Avoidant Attachment Style (For the Anxiously Attached)
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Dear Partner of an Avoidant：
I know these days haven’t been easy for you. You’ve endured lo...
17
Jun
A Letter To Those With Avoidant Attachment
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Dear Avoidant,
I know you’ve carried so much—neglect, unfairness, misunderstanding, and helplessnes...
16
Jun
How To Love Avoidant Attachment Style
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Introduction
As a therapist—and as a woman who’s personally experienced anxiety, avoidance, and sec...